Coping with the Awakening Process

Coping with the Awakening Process

What if I told you that you are the center of the universe….that it all revolves around you. And what if I told you that everything you believe you are seeing with your eyes is being created by you. Shakespeare said that all the worlds a stage, but did you know that you are the actor, screen writer, producer and set designer? All those people you see out there are actors in your drama, playing the part you gave them. All the events playing out in your life….the highs, the lows, the wins, the losses are all being orchestrated by you.

This world is being exposed for what it is. Do you not see that every day, as more & more ludicrous events vie for your attention? As we awaken from the deep state of slumber we have been in and try to shake the cobwebs from our brain, we realize how totally insane this world is. Wiping the sleep from our eyes, it slowly dawns on us that we are the ones scripting this drama. We agreed to have this experience of separation and fear, but it is way past the time when we should have heard God’s alarm clock going off. It’s time for us to return to our real home. Time for us to stop playing blindly in the matrix and join the rest of the universe in conscious awareness.

There is nothing more painful or heartbreaking than to be cut off from our Creator. The feeling of abandonment and sadness never leaves you. We were created to be joyful, but that is not our experience while we have been residents of this planet. Lost in the game…not knowing it was a game, believing ourselves to be a body, we struggle to find love- the love we know exists. We carry a faint, ancient memory of it, but we do not know where to look for it.

We see other bodies moving about this world. They work, they play, they try to find understanding….they seek a higher purpose, but too many times the very places they look for comfort and direction causes them greater suffering and pain. The lies start when they are small children and continue throughout their lives. They are born sinners. They need redemption- someone to save them. They are little, helpless beings that need to beg their Father’s forgiveness. It’s time to turn away from the propaganda. Time to turn inward and find the truth….it’s there….it’s always been there. We hid it in the last place we knew we would look. Yes, we agreed to this game, we agreed to play in a world of duality, knowing full well we would fall into total forgetfulness. All because we love how it feels to come awake and remember our true identity!

The game is coming to an end. Do not let yourself linger in the anger you feel when realizing that you’ve been duped. There’s too much to forgive!! That is, forgive without judgment! After all, who is it you would blame for spinning the lies and pulling the wool over your eyes? To cast blame is to perpetuate the old 3-D world….and nobody in their right mind wants that. Wake up! Be still and let the truth of who you are slowly and surely dawn on you. The Divine is within you…ALL is within you. No need to search outside yourself and no need to look around for answers. Access the true nature of your Being and you will find a wellspring of Love that is beyond anything this world has ever offered you.

You are the center of the universe… ARE the universe…the All that Is. Your true nature is shared with the Creator- it cannot be otherwise. We are eternal beings- not these pitiful bodies that were made to reinforce the idea of separation and death. To suffer and die is the ego’s game- not our Creator’s.

The answer to any confusion or anxiety you might feel as you go through this awakening process is to always remember the truth of who you are. That should become your default setting….turn away from the rules imposed on you by the old three dimensional world! They no longer apply. Unity consciousness is where we are headed! A world where our connection to Source is always in our awareness….a world that shimmers with the vibration of love and acceptance. We are birthing that world by our thoughts…now. Every second of every day our thoughts create our next experience. This new earth is here- it’s within our grasp- if we can just release our fears. Let go of the old programming by becoming conscious of your thoughts. Every moment is an opportunity for forgiveness- not the judgmental kind of forgiveness where I deem you wrong and so forgive you…no the new kind of forgiveness that takes us to a world beyond the need for it. Acceptance….that’s the new kind of forgiveness. No judgment of anyone.

Let’s live the truth of who we are by refusing to allow the illusions of this holographic world to keep us hypnotized any longer. Let’s move past the blame and anger of having played the role of victim in a game we didn’t even know we were playing. Let’s claim our true Divinity and not look back at a past that never happened…it was, after all, only a dream.

It seems appropriate to end this message with a quote I love- one given to me by one of my ACIM students in the form of a beautiful plaque she made.

By Mark Twain: “Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.”

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  1. Erica JImenez February 6, 2019 at 3:22 pm - Reply

    Just finished reading your book. Thank you so much for this book. I hope that everyone who needs to read it can be able some way or another to find it. Thank you again

    • Sherry Wilde February 11, 2019 at 2:52 pm - Reply

      That’s a lovely sentiment Erica! I trust that anyone who can benefit from the book will get a hold of it. That’s the way it’s supposed to work!
      I’m happy you found it!! Thanks for taking the time to post a comment! love, Sherry

  2. Trisia May 22, 2015 at 5:21 pm - Reply

    Hello. Draconias…what i know about them is that they are not good aliens and i can not understand how someone will trust them. Draconias feed on fear and any low energy that humans can think of.
    Please be careful….they can decive you as well.

    • Sherry Wilde May 22, 2015 at 6:51 pm - Reply

      Thank you for posting the comment. I would just say that in my experience, not all are evil. It is like any other race of beings….some good, some not so good. I am moving cautiously with these guys….for sure I am careful to keep my frequency high! Again, thank you for taking the time to write!

  3. amy lamb March 19, 2015 at 1:41 pm - Reply

    I cannot Thank You enough Sherry! I just listened to your lifestory for the first time and I just need to tell you how very much I appreciate you being here and sharing who youare- who weare. Much Much Love to you, our family and Da!!

    • Sherry Wilde March 19, 2015 at 2:52 pm - Reply

      Thank you Amy…..I appreciate your comments so much. Love & Light to You~ Sherry

  4. Mercedes Aparicio March 8, 2015 at 11:39 am - Reply

    Hi Sherry!

    I’m glad I found you. I’ve struggled with some bizarre experiences I’ve had in my life. There is a lot of disinformation out there so one doesn’t know what to believe anymore. I identify with you on the part that you mention that you are having these ET experiences but are spiritual at the same time. I feel the same way, and don’t think I can separate the two of them.

    I’m glad I’m not the only one going through this process because Its very hard to talk about this subject to anyone, some people don’t understand or don’t care (they live on an eternal slumber) while others are just too prompt to judge thinking I’m looney. This makes me feel isolated and very lonely at times even though I’m surrounded by many caring and loving people. I learned not to share these experiences anymore as even those close to me don’t understand.

    Thanks for coming out of the closet with your story. The message is simple but very powerful. You story is very inspirational to me, I believe I’m barely waking up and dont’ know exactly where I’m headed to. As you mention on the video I will take what ever resonates within me. I will get your book soon. Again thanks for sharing.

    love, light and best wishes!

    • Sherry Wilde March 8, 2015 at 1:51 pm - Reply

      Excellent Mercedes! So happy you are finding peace- these experiences can be so unsettling, but we must have agreed to them or they would not be happening. I hope you find the courage to start talking about them- what you will find is that new people will come into your life to support you. Anyone who does not resonate with it will fade into the background- perhaps not to disappear entirely from your life, but you will choose to be with those that accept and support you. It is time for us to all be authentic, so I am sure when it is right for you, you will know it. Much Love & Light to You! ~Sherry

  5. Rowena Fanali January 26, 2015 at 1:03 am - Reply

    Thank you so very much, Sherry, for telling us your amazing story and sharing the beautiful love and wisdom that ensued. I found you today on YouTube and as soon as my Kindle’s battery is recharged I’m going to buy your book and also enjoy every word written. You have touched my heart and many others… and many more to come. Thank you again. Much love to you.

    • Sherry Wilde January 26, 2015 at 8:25 am - Reply

      Thank you Rowena! I am happy my message resonates with you! Let me know what you think of the book! Much love~Sherry

  6. Linda January 13, 2015 at 8:22 am - Reply

    Hi Sherry, I’m 25years old now, since I was a child I always questioning who am I and wondering what I’m doing in this body. That thought is confusing for me, I don’t feel normal, I felt lonely and felt there is something missing in my life as if I forgot something and I feel this terrible sadness for the pain and suffering for the people living on earth.

    One day I prayed to God, venting my frustration how I felt so sad with this chaotic world and the sadness that I felt, I told God I can’t take it and I don’t wanna stay here, I feel the love and there was a voice speak in my head “we’ll come for you”. I did felt abandoned, but the truth is we are never alone aren’t we? I also had some regular visitation from time to time as I’m sleeping, beetween dream I felt they did something to my body, sometimes it was painful, sometimes I feel angry because I don’t understand, although I don’t know who are they, they don’t feel bad, they actually healed me. I wish I could be more concious to communicate with them but I never really see them.

    Recently I had a dream shown by my guides about the old earth in being destroyed by the catastrophe as the water flooded the land etc. And I had a dream seeing of a beautiful planet from the space, it is filled with so much vibrant colors, feels loving and glowing beautifully, my guide told me it’s the new Earth. It’s look very different! What a beautiful state we are entering now, though we don’t know when the 5D is going to happen, might be years, which I wish wouldn’t be that long, but it is definitely very wonderful and worth the wait!

    I’ve ordered your book and can’t wait it to be arrive at my doorstep!
    Thank you for publishing you book Sherry, you are a very strong and brave woman, your decision to publish the book about your journey and share what you had learn despite the difficulty you’re in because of that decision, I can tell you it is a very valuable gift for humanity, you had given a big push, sheds more knowledge for awakening and courage to a lot of people. I love you, We love you, keep on shining my dear!!! May you always be blessed with Love and Light, namaste.

    • Sherry Wilde January 15, 2015 at 10:11 am - Reply

      Every day I hear from people who express very similar feelings- feeling lost, abandoned, sad and bewildered as to what this is all about. We miss our connection to our Creator and love/safety we knew through that connection. But we are finally finding our way back into the Light and the experiences we had while in our state of separation will serve us well in assisting others. So it is all good- never forget the truth of who you are! In that is found our salvation and peace. Much love to you Linda!

  7. Craig January 11, 2015 at 8:13 am - Reply

    Wonderfully said. I wish that everyone could hear your words to wake them up, and get this process rolling even more within themselves, and for all. Keep up the amazing work, and spreading and sharing the wonderful messages and experiences. Love and light dear sister.

    • Sherry Wilde January 11, 2015 at 8:19 am - Reply

      Thank you Craig, I appreciate your kind words. We are getting there- it does appear as though more and more are hearing the call. It is also true that this is an individual journey- each soul decides what is right for them. So enjoy the process….it appears it will continue to be amazing! Much Love & Light to You!

  8. Terry January 2, 2015 at 3:31 pm - Reply

    This entry is such a good reminder for us to remember daily.
    Thank you so much! It is an honor to have connected with you!!!

    • Sherry Wilde January 3, 2015 at 11:24 am - Reply

      Thank you Terry- I appreciate that you took the time to write! Much love to you on your journey!!

  9. Tracy December 30, 2014 at 6:43 pm - Reply

    hello there dear sister.
    i just found out about you on Youtube and bought your book in kindle and it is so beautiful. THank you for that. And I must say joy has come back into my life by just hearing things you have said in your interviews. I have been going through some cleansings and some things you stated i know to be true and the rest my heart feels them to be true. THank you again and yes ONE does make the difference. Love to you my dear sister.

    • Sherry Wilde January 1, 2015 at 9:41 am - Reply

      So wonderful of you to take the time to comment! Loads of Love to YOU!

  10. Carol December 28, 2014 at 1:32 pm - Reply

    Hi Sherry,

    This is really beautifully written and touches my heart deeply. Much appreciation for these inspiring words!

    • Sherry Wilde December 28, 2014 at 4:45 pm - Reply

      Thank you!! I appreciate that you took the time to comment! Love & Light to you!

  11. Joe December 27, 2014 at 12:32 pm - Reply

    Words to let soak in and take to heart. Wonderfully done, Sherry. Eye opening to me. Thanks – Joe P

    • Sherry Wilde December 28, 2014 at 10:55 am - Reply

      Thank you Joe! So happy you found it worthwhile.

  12. Tanya Brasch December 19, 2014 at 10:56 am - Reply

    Thank You for the reminder to forgive without judgment. I sometimes fall back into duality.

    Your message also reminds me to re-write my script!!!! I can see how I have created the play. It’s time to make some adjustments/ Thank you Sherry! .

    • Sherry Wilde December 19, 2014 at 11:15 am - Reply

      How about we all help one another to remember! Even Einstein knew it…hence his quote: “This world is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one!”

      • Tanya Brasch December 21, 2014 at 3:28 pm - Reply

        Hi Sherry, I’m starting to realize when I go into different dimensions and can hear them.Im creating permission slips to enter that state of frequency. I believe Im getting a lot of help with this,

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